Nothing and no one owes us anything

Nine years ago, I was diagnosed with bulimia, which later turned into anorexia which leaded to oesofaghitis. I found myself divorced, penniless and homeless, having the responsibility of my two kids. I was feeling so sick and lonely. It was a quite challenging period for me. At first, I was blaming everyone else but myself for my hardships. As the days gone by, I managed to overcome those hardships the moment I realized that I was the only person in charge for my own health and life. It didn't matter if I was born poor or if I had a lot of issues to deal with while I was growing up.

In New York I used to hear a lot the phrase "There is no free lunch". That was an amazing life lesson which empowered my belief that no one owes us anything. I have an advice for you for the New Year: DO NOT WAIT and go after your dreams NOW. Don't wait because you never know what might happen in a minute, tomorrow or in a year from now.

In conclusion, in order to succeed in life:

1.    First you need to find your inner peace.

2.    Forgive those who hurt you

3.    Be fearless

4.    Be a dreamer

5.    Then you have to decide what is the most important thing for you

6.    After making a decision, visualize it, plan it and go for it!

There is NEVER a right time to do something. The only right moment is when your GUT INSTINCT is trying to push you to that way. Listen to your inner-voice, trust your intuition and go for it!

You can accomplish this easier by having as your life moto these three words:

     LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE.

Chase your dreams NOW, DON’T wait. You don’t need to be perfect in order to act, the only thing that matters is to be honest to yourself and the people who really loves you, will embrace and encourage you.

We tend to lose too much valuable time for planning, thinking and overanalyzing everything. Make a plan and go for it. Don't wait to find love after accomplishing all your goals. Love and to be loved. Sharing your excitement and sorrow with a true partner is above and beyond of a million dollar house or a valuable item.